Posted by margie24 on June 8, 2005, at 22:13:17
In reply to Re: Can't get past this HATRED! » margie24, posted by JenStar on June 8, 2005, at 20:52:28
> Could you try talking to her 1:1 after the wedding sometime? Maybe get together for lunch with just her, a "girls day out." Be honest and say something like, "hey, I know we never seemed to get along from the start. I'd really like to be closer to you b/c it's obvious how much you mean to my brother. How do you feel about it?"Yes, I can try. It will be very hard for me though. I have done this already, just not in person...I've done it over the phone and email. And I wasn't mean, I'd never call her names.
I don't have the courage to face her right now and I really don't know what I have to say. Sometimes I have a lot to say, but when people like you calm me down, I realize, I have nothing. I just have bad feelings about her and we're pretty different I guess. Maybe not.Thanks Jenn,
Margie
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