Posted by MidnightBlue on June 8, 2005, at 14:17:30
In reply to Can't get past this HATRED!, posted by margie24 on June 8, 2005, at 2:46:39
Margie,
Is it possible that on some level you might be jealous of your sister-in-law-to-be? Think hard about that before you answer.
Do you wish you had a Lexus? or a huge diamond ring? Are you having to work in a job you don't like?
I can tell you are in a lot of pain, but I bet your brother is, too. It really isn't fair to tell your brother he has to choose between his wife or his family.
NO ONE will feel any better if you make a big scene either before or at the wedding. You are playing with fire and someone is going to be burned.
If at all possible try to get in to see a counselor who you can vent all these feelings to.
Hugs,
MidnightBlue
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