Posted by Dinah on February 28, 2002, at 20:54:56
In reply to Re: Anger » Dinah, posted by Krazy Kat on February 28, 2002, at 18:26:07
> Any more thoughts?
>
> - KKNot a one, I'm afraid. My therapist suggested I tell him I would divorce him if we didn't get therapy, but I don't play those games. And he really is a keeper you know. For the most part he is a great guy. This is definitely not a deal breaker, just a source of distress.
I guess my real question was whether my husband's behaviors fall well within societal norms. I am a big believer that reduced expectations are the key to happiness. But I don't want to reduce my expectations to below the behavior I can reasonably expect. If his behavior is outside what is to be expected I will continue to politely, firmly, and fruitlessly insist on better treatment.
Thanks again,
Dinah
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