Posted by Krazy Kat on February 28, 2002, at 18:26:07
In reply to Re: Anger » Krazy Kat , posted by Dinah on February 28, 2002, at 17:02:19
Certainly true, Dinah, we can only change ourselves. But if this is Really detrimental (SP?) I would encourage you to take a very firm stand and tell him he needs to change this "habit" or he may be facing life alone. I say this only if it's such a weight that it could, potentially, not be worth it.
Otherwise, and I know you said divorce is Not an option, perhaps you can find ways to squelch his anger before it gets started. Your therapist might have thoughts on this.
I guess I'm thinking, you could treat him like a child throwing a tantrum when this happens, or something like that. I am obviously not a psychologist. :)
Any more thoughts?
- KK
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