Posted by gadchik on April 1, 2014, at 6:33:10
In reply to Re: divorce?, posted by baseball55 on March 31, 2014, at 19:25:40
I hear ya, baseball. You just tell yourself, you'll get through this, over and over. Am I understanding that he wants to be able to have a girlfriend and be married too? A lot of men see nothing wrong in this. Most women, horrified by it. Seems as if you only have the choice to stay and put up with his selfishness, or leave and be financially wrecked. Very difficult. In your mind, do you really think he'd quit his job to avoid alimony, or could this be a tactic to get you to stay?
"The need for change bulldozed a road down the center of my mind."-Maya Angelou
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