Posted by alexandra_k on April 28, 2014, at 20:44:11
In reply to update, posted by baseball55 on April 27, 2014, at 19:58:01
that is wonderful. i'm not entirely sure what to say. actually, that isn't true. i wrote a bunch of stuff... but... didn't post it.
it was stuff about how maybe you will grieve a bit once you settle into your new place and you can mentally collapse... but then... maybe you won't. maybe... your getting stuck swiftly into the logistics of moving out upon hearing the news wasn't just your way of coping with the situation... maybe it was that that was what you actually wanted. so it wasn't a coping thing so much as a... you living your life thing. maybe you will let out a deep sigh of relief in your candle lit bubble bath (if you are into such things and you are getting a bath)... that you don't have to... keep living a facade... or something...
who knows. i could see people responding either way. or even... cycling between them.
really glad to hear that things are amicable between you. really very. so many times things don't work out that way... so wonderful to hear you still have respect for each other as people and a basic level of... warmth. and kind feelings. after all those years... so many times things don't end up that way... which is really very sad.
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