Posted by gadchik on March 28, 2014, at 6:40:18
In reply to divorce?, posted by baseball55 on March 27, 2014, at 20:09:06
And I want to tell you my own story, which ends quite differently from my mother in law's. After 11 yrs of marriage, my hubby cheated. Ive been married now 22yrs to same man. I went thru hell and back during that period. I ranted and raved, thought I was losing my mind, but I kept myself in check, mostly because my son was 11 yr old at the time. Financial aspect weighed heavily on me, and I was still very much in love as well. I decided to stay in my marriage, but made it clear that I would put up with no cheating, no girlfriend. I do realize, Im at risk of this happening again. My son is now in college, so if it happened again, I would end the marriage, just because hubby saw how much it hurt me, and do that to me again? No way would I stay. So, over the yrs since, we've been close, happy, make sure to do fun things together, try to understand each other, compromise. Im in love, still. So, that's a diff ending and I hope to always be with my husband.
"The need for change bulldozed a road down the center of my mind."-Maya Angelou
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