Posted by alexandra_k on March 27, 2014, at 21:18:14
In reply to divorce?, posted by baseball55 on March 27, 2014, at 20:09:06
well... i don't know.
i have come to see the sense in the notion of arranged marriage. the idea being that once the endorphin rush fades... the passion... what is left is... compatibility or not... friendship or not... the ability to come to a mutually acceptable compromise on various things or not...
some women do decide to put up with cheating. others don't. some do - but grudgingly. they aren't happy about it. others don't mind so much. sometimes their husbands turn out to be total *ssh*l*s in not being accepting of their decision to pursue alternative romantic relationships at that point... lol... othertimes some sort of mututal discretion... keeping up appearance thing seems to sort of work... i guess it is an individual thing, i mean to say.
in ways... i think guys and girls do think / feel differently about sex. it means something different - i mean. i don't deal with hypocracy of okay for me but not for you... but aside from that... there are evolutionary explanations at this point... that sorta do make some sort of sense... but whatever...
the financial thing is hard. i don't know what to say about that. that was what sent me into my first episode, honestly. the need to end a relationship and i had no idea how to survive with the loss of it. only found myself out of it by way of hospital... then supported living... i'm sorry things are hard.
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