Posted by AdaGrace on October 9, 2005, at 21:32:04
In reply to Okay, I have a couple of social events coming up.., posted by TexasChic on October 9, 2005, at 18:29:07
Maybe it's the movies, maybe it's an unrealistic romantic foolish notion. But I want someone to dance with. It's magical to be that close to a man, feel him, sway with him to the same beat. Most men I know tell me that they don't dance because they don't know how. They are afraid of embarassing themselves. My husband had no idea how to dance. He bobs. Even during slow songs. That is that once in a blue moon occassion where I can convince him to dance with me. It's iritating. I can't tell you how many times I have been to a wedding reception, street dance, etc with him and have begged and pleaded with him to dance with me to no avail. He actually humiliated me once by refusing to dance with me but finding another guy to dance with me. He was old. Way old. It was a slow song. It was actually a very favorite song of mine. I wanted to rub bellies with my husband, not a virtual stranger. I won't forget that moment.
There was an occassion a few months ago where I was with someone else (a long story - read some of my previous threads on relationship board) anyhoo....there was this magical romantic moment where I was wisked to my feet and danced with in a bar, with noone else dancing but everyone watching and I was in heaven.
But I digress. Or should I say digest.
Hubby danced with me once in the living room, I danced for him once......but it just isn't the same. Nothing can replace that feeling of "I want you near me, swaying to the music, and I don't care who see, or who hates pda's". Yeah, they're out there. Just few and far between.
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