Posted by noa on June 9, 2003, at 16:18:50
In reply to Re: Lots of changes and upheaval at home » fallsfall, posted by bookgurl99 on June 9, 2003, at 10:00:58
You mentioned feeling like you wish you could be the anchor now during this upheaval. I wonder if her kind of "fleeing" fantasies are at all because maybe she fears that she has failed you as a financial anchor for your relationship. Or the fear that now that she isn't bringing in the good income, what would you want her for anyway? Then, going into the military or moving out of state could be a way of fleeing in case you were to reject her, which it doesn't sound like you are going to do, but maybe she fears it?
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