Posted by fallsfall on June 9, 2003, at 7:06:08
In reply to Lots of changes and upheaval at home, posted by bookgurl99 on June 9, 2003, at 4:56:36
That is a lot of upheaval!
Did she look locally before she started looking outside the state? Maybe she sees moving as an opportunity?
It sounds like you are afraid that you will lose her if she goes into the military. If orientation wasn't an issue, would you feel the same way, or would you be able to go with her?
Writing notes sounds like a really good idea. I can often write something down that I can't say. How long have the two of you been together?
This is a hard time. Keep trying to communicate.
Good Luck!
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