Posted by widget on April 1, 2010, at 17:41:07
What do you do if your therapist seems to enbody all the characteristics of the man you always wanted? Why does this keep comming up with me? I am wondering if I like to suffer!
I do not want to have sex with him; I just wish he really loved me. That's it.
Its been over 7 years in therapy; 5 of which involved these feelings I have. He may call it transference but it is love. I guess I need to accept him as he is; trying to do his job and be ethical. In fact, I do, except for the part where he would have strong feelings for me but, of course, nothing is allowed to happen. I feel just so miserable; I should never have brought it up. The fact that I did must mean something, but what? I am troubled and tired.
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