Posted by widget on April 7, 2010, at 18:35:29
In reply to Re: Dilemma in Therapy » widget, posted by Daisym on April 7, 2010, at 13:35:16
Dear Daisym, Thank you so much for your encouraging and insightful response. It is best, of course, for me to do as you said and I want to!
I have a very difficult time with confrontations. This will be especially hard given whom I am confronting. I hate to keep asking you for help but do you have any idea how to begin? Usually, I go into the room, sit down, he sits down, he looks at me very seriously and asks "How are you?" And, it goes from there. I have a sense I need to verbalize then as we can easily be sidetracked and I can easily decide to let it go, at least for now. I don't think that is wise. Of course, I don't have to be argumentative and hostile. I can be calm and just state how I feel. Thanks, Daisym for your validation. Sincerely, Widget
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