Posted by sassyfrancesca on March 14, 2008, at 8:38:00
In reply to Re: Love with therapist » sassyfrancesca, posted by jenlynnsock on March 13, 2008, at 18:18:52
Hi, sweetie: I am so sorry about all of the deaths (I didn't know)....Please accept my condolences and love.
As for my t, if I chose to leave, I would be without any man in my life.....well, even tho i am 61, I look in my early 40's, and make sure I let my t read all of the blurbs from the dating website I am on, LOl, LOL.....I do it just to aggravate him!
On one hand he wants me to be happy; find another man, etc,etc.....i have no desire to do that; I have found the man I want and need; unfortunately he is married (hard to tell sometimes)...
We are going to be at the same (psychology) convention in Hawaii; oh the sneaky fantasies I have, LOl, LOL
We are like a married couple, in that I am sarcastic and tell him just what I think (sometimes), and tease and flirt with him outrageously.....he is also a tease and flirt, and we are alike in over 30 different ways; even have the same (rare) eye disease...oh, how romantic!
I went to him because of what my church of 31 years was d oing to me (long story)......and he being a pastor---my girlfriend told me about him; as I needed a therapist (and how often would you find exactly what you needed) who was an expert in spiritual abuse....and when the church debacle was over (he journeyed with me for the 18 months in which I fought the system); first man to ever stand up for me in my whole life (powerful bond), and then I simply stayed with him......
After my divorce (I was sitting on the floor); he wordlessly got up from his chair, and sat next to me without saying a word.
So sensitive, empathic and powerful; I told him all I wanted to do was to scoot over and have him hold me (my restraint is unbelievable); wonder how much longer I can do "this."
Hugs, Sassy
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