Posted by sunnydays on June 16, 2007, at 11:21:14
In reply to and so...... :-(, posted by muffled on June 16, 2007, at 0:07:03
((((muffled))))
Just so we're clear, your parents were NOT working with defective goods, if you mean you by that. I don't believe any adult is defective, but certainly a child is not defective. Ever. They are all sweet and innocent, and they are shaped by the environment they grow up in.
I hope you will send this to your T, the whole thing even the last part where you talk about her. Then I think she really might understand better how you think. It can't hurt anything, can it? She'll just know a piece of you a little better. And that's not a bad thing. She's tough, she can handle it, and she's also a safe person who would never hurt you intentionally and who I'm sure tries her best not to hurt you unintentionally. I bet she would love to hear what you write.
You are wonderful, caring person muffled. I wish you could find a way to accept someone else's caring for you. We care about you here, and your T cares about you. Let that surround you when you get afraid, if you can, and hold you so you feel safe. But if you can't do that, that's ok too. It's a very hard thing to trust enough to do it. I can't do it all the time.
Take care of yourself muffled. You deserve it.
sunnydays
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