Posted by antigua on July 7, 2005, at 12:23:25
In reply to Re: Disconnected with T » Shortelise, posted by Dinah on July 4, 2005, at 13:54:18
Excuse me for jumping in, but I stick with people, places and things long after they are beneficial, maybe even detrimental, to me. I have such a hard time with these boundaries, of protecting myself. I find it very frustrating that I can't "see" clearly, that my abandonment issues prevent me from recognizing when it's time to move on. What usually happens is that I am left, so the damage is two-fold.
I'm working on trying to recognize this pattern before I get involved, but it's really difficult with the people, places, etc. that are already part of my every day life.
Has there been anything that has been particularly helpful to you in dealing with this?
thanks,
antigua
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