Posted by Emily Elizabeth on July 5, 2005, at 0:39:45
In reply to Re: Disconnected with T, posted by rockymtnhi on July 4, 2005, at 17:44:15
Have things calmed down enough with work so that you could see your T every week? I think that would be a huge part of reconnecting. When you don't see eachother at least that often you spend so much of the session catching the T up on what has happened in your life.
So, in a perfect world, you could tell your T that you are feeling disconnected from him right now and you want to come in every week. You could also say that you'd be interested in any impressions that he might have about why you might be feeling this way. I say in a perfect world b/c it all sounds so easy in theory, but can be so hard in reality. What do you think? Would any of this be possible?
Best,
EE
> > Why did you decide to see him less often? Were you feeling better or was it a $ reason or something else?
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> I have been terribly busy with work so I HAD to take a break. But also, I wasn't really using my time wisely in therapy because I was not talking to him. I was not being fair to either one of us. He wanted to help me but I wouldnt let him close enough.
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