Posted by Elle2021 on January 8, 2004, at 2:54:46
In reply to Another late night? » Elle2021, posted by Karen_kay on January 7, 2004, at 11:14:40
Hi Karen,
How do you get by with never brushing your hair? Is it in a weave? Sometimes I don't brush my hair (or wash it). Seems to style better when it isn't clean, my hairstylist even backed me up on that. I do usually wash mine once a day (once every other day if I don't have to go somewhere). I can't imagine your clothes not matching! Especially after the thread about therapy fashion disasters! :) I also have mostly black and white clothes (to match my black and white thinking, hehehe). I find they really do match just about everything, so it's easy to get dressed in the morning.That is so rude of your pdoc. I can't belive he said that to you. One time I emailed my pdoc and he never emailed me back and then didn't even mention my email in the next session I had. My feelings were hurt. I didn't bring it up. And one time he didn't call me back and I was really hurt about that too. He said that it was a "miscommunication" betwixt the receptionist, me, and him. Just kinda upsets me that he blamed it on your bpd. Doesn't he know that not everybody is the same "level" of bpd. Like you said, if your bf breaks up with you, you aren't going to commit suicide. Neither would I. I haven't ever threatened to commit suicide or anything like that. You know, sometimes I feel like my pdoc doesn't even think therapy will help me. I refuse to divulge anything personal. It's really a problem for me. I just can't bring myself to tell him about anything except my OCD (and even that is limited disclosure). I only have appointments with him once a month. And, it is snowing so bad, I don't even know if I will be able to make my next one. :( I don't like missing appointments.
Maybe if Shorty got a part time job she might start doing better. I think group therapy is a good idea for her. This way she will have to control her rage or be at the mercy of being ridiculed by her fellow group-mates. I don't do group, as you already know I have enough trouble talking alone with my pdoc. Hopefully she will be able to get things under control soon. The doctor should wean her off the Klonopin. I take that, and it is pretty addictive. Maybe detox would help her?
Well, I'm going to be giddy awaiting your response! :)
Elle
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