Posted by baseball55 on April 3, 2014, at 19:59:38
In reply to Which means, moving out, posted by Partlycloudy on April 3, 2014, at 17:05:00
Well, I feel for you and know how hard this is. But sometimes you reach a point where your own mental health/self-respect/self-esteem is being destabilized by staying.
I'm on the edge of that point, but still able to feel I can take my time. If you are past that point, then it's probably time to go. Hard as that is. And, of course, as I am finding, the economic issues make things so much harder. If it weren't so complicated financially, I would be gone already.
After couples separate, their living standards decline (at least financially) and this is especially true for women.
Good luck. Keep us posted.
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