Posted by Angela2 on March 29, 2014, at 19:57:37
In reply to Re: This is hard » Angela2, posted by Partlycloudy on March 29, 2014, at 19:40:24
Thanks, PC, honestly, I think you know a thing or two, you're not fooling me, lol. Maybe I just need moral support. i don't really feel like I get it in my real life. I was quite close with this guy. I'll call him "C." We have known each other for 8 months, he was there for me when I quit my job, and for all that crappy stuff happened with that jerk guy who I quit my job over, who I will refer to as "jerk guy" lol. The weird thing.is he didn't even know the pain I was going through. We just had fun, flirting online, and he was interested in me. When I finally DID tell him the truth, it seemed like.things started to change.
I sometimes feel weird calling him out on lies, because it ruins the conversation. But one time I did. And he got defensive. and wouldn't admit it. He HAS admitted to me before that he lies all the time. But only when it seems, he can't hold it in anymore, or he's really struggling. I basically am wondering if he really has cancer, and I feel like that's not good (he told me he was diagnosed with cancer). I mean, if I can't trust him about that.
He has told me other things about himself that scare me. And I feel like it's not the whole truth either.
and then I look at the other thingsthe good things about him. and I will miss him.
Thanks for your response PC.
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