Posted by margie24 on June 9, 2005, at 1:14:29
JenStar,
I'm up again. I read your post. Thanks. I agree about weddings. And, you're right, most men really could probably do without them. So in that aspect, it probably is the bride's day. And there's no way I'll take that away from her.
I've decided I will enjoy the wedding. I even thought of something to say if they allow me to toast at the rehearsal dinner. I'll tell her she's completed my brother and then say we're glad to have another sister. It will be very therapeutic...that's how I find therapy I guess. I think I can do it. I might pass out. The thought frightens me becasue I want to mean it. You know what, though, I know my brother would feel relief.
Thanks again Jenn,
Margie
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