Posted by Damos on June 6, 2005, at 21:39:06
In reply to Re: This is about Sex and Men » Damos, posted by Susan47 on June 6, 2005, at 18:46:51
I'm really sorry that's the case Suze. Now see, I love to give them for no reason other than the appreciation I can't always express in words. Never, ever in expectation or to keep up with someone else. Just for the joy I experience through the recipient. It's also why I've taken to sending Thank You cards, and I'm now experiencing a sense of joy in the act of appreciating the other person totally independant of their response. The desire to send flowers to some of my babble friends is pretty simply because I can't always express how very much they mean to me and how much I appreciate their kindness and support. Or just to say, I feel your pain and wanted to do something that was just about who you are to me.
And yet I know my father has never ever bought flowers in his life and it simply wouldn't occur to him.
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