Posted by jay on February 12, 2005, at 14:32:18
Welcome back to the hot new reality t.v. show "You Bet Your Life" (not to be confused with the old game show of the same name..)
In the last episode....
Well, she refused to see me over the St. Valentine's day weekend (she has off), refused to call me (or let me call her) to talk about saving this relationship because she "had a headache", and pretty much chopped off any chance of me having contact with her.
So here is the letter I emailed her:
"Hello K:
Well, I am writing this email because you seem impossible to get a hold of any other way. Last night you said you would call me back, you didn't.
So, I am going to make my point final, because I am tired of what seem like childish games. You say one thing, but do another.
I want to be able to see you at least 5-6 times a month, and us to be in regular contact by phone or email. I already stated the reasons why...that I wanted a proper, descent relationship with you. It is *not* normal just to talk or see somebody you are dating just one time a month. If you can't do this, then it is really your loss. That will be the end of our relationship then, because I can't settle for a "semi" relationship.
So, if you *DO* really want this to work, you call me before 10 pm, (I go to work at 10:30...she seems to like to call me at 10:15 or 10:20) and we will go from there. I am not budging though. You complain about everything and ignore me almost completely....ya that makes a guy feel good, doesn't it? You are a total opposite of what you put in your ad on the (dating) website...you are not able to offer *anything*. So you lied. Yes I am on medications...but I am the one who is stable...who is happy...who is strong...who has tons to offer. Maybe you really might want to think about that, seriously.
So this is it K, call me and work it out, or just forget about me. I am sick and tired of this yo-yo. Be an adult and face up to it.
Jay"
Yes, they are tough words, but man it felt good to finally after a week or two to get them out! Your guys comments are really welcome...and in fact appreciated, very much so. Thanks!
Jay
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