Posted by jay on February 7, 2005, at 18:20:08
In reply to Re: Please...I beg for help with girlfriend problem.. » jay, posted by Shortelise on February 7, 2005, at 12:54:19
> You could go for long walks with her, play frisbee, swim -- do things outdoors, things where you get exercise. It can help depression hugely, and can also help with weight loss.
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> Notice I am not suggesting that you two join a gym - this is more subtle than that. I am just suggesting that the two of you get physically active, do things together that make you both feel physically great - and I'm not talking about sex.
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> Beware of the need to be "in love".
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> I hope this helps.
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> ShortE
>Yes...I could use to lose a good 50 or so pounds myself, so I think your ideas are great. That "need to be in love" is a bit of an influence...as I have said...going for 5 or so years without that special human touch, and the feelings of elation, it's like waking up from the dead...really...heh..lol. But, time will tell, because eventually those infatuation feelings subside, and reality comes barging in.
Thanks very much,
Jay
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