Posted by SLS on March 12, 2014, at 7:08:54
In reply to It hurts so much, posted by Dinah Seeks Support on March 12, 2014, at 0:51:28
> Even if it's beyond his control, it hurts so much.
I think you should expect to grieve as much for the loss of your T as you would for the loss of a parent. Regardless of the reasons why your T is no longer available, his loss will leave you with a hole in your life.
If I were in your situation, I would act under the premise that your T is gone. I would allow myself to cry and grieve. Usually, things get better as time passes, as long as you process the loss rather than deny it.
It hurts so much.
It will not stop hurting all at once.
In my opinion, given what little I know about you, you are strong enough to get through this, and will become even stronger because of it.
Good luck.
- ScottSome see things as they are and ask why.
I dream of things that never were and ask why not.- George Bernard Shaw
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