Posted by emmanuel98 on August 13, 2010, at 22:00:18
In reply to It's really over and miss my t so much :-(, posted by healingmysoul on August 13, 2010, at 20:39:50
Well a lot of T's, with good reason, don't want to coddle or baby their clients. They want to treat them as adults who have agency over their own lives, are capable of making their own decisions. They want to try and work with the healthy, competent parts of our personalities to strengthen those parts, rather than with the immature, childish or psychotic parts of our personalities.
So you sent your T a termination email. How is he supposed to respond. Does he take you seriously and say, fine, if that's what you, as an adult, want, that's what we'll do. Or does he treat is as a manipulative, childish, angry and retaliatory email that makes him angry and feel manipulated.
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