Posted by LittleGirlLost on June 25, 2005, at 14:37:08
In reply to Re: Need help, but too triggered to write. :( » LittleGirlLost, posted by rainbowbrite on June 25, 2005, at 13:19:05
> i think its not that you want a 'mom' instead of a man, i think you just dont feel like you got what you needed and are feeling more deprived of a mothers love and are looking to fill a void.
> i think if you can separate the two relationships and try to find out what you want from each it may help?? I dont know maybe you already know this. But, the stress you are feeling with this new relationship seem to be understandable to me.
> RElationships are stressful even for people who dont have other issues....so Ive heard.
>Thanks Rainbow, I like the way you worded that. I feel like I opened a can of worms, but as painful and confusing it is for me, I'm glad I did. (I think!) I guess it's been a long time coming for me. Even my T said something the other night like, "have you been wanting to tell me this all along?" It sounded funny to me although I'm not sure why. Just takes me so darn long to open up, but I probably still wouldn't have if it weren't for this new relationship.
lgl
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