Posted by ChicagoKat on September 26, 2012, at 6:37:25
In reply to Re: I'm in trouble » ChicagoKat, posted by jane d on September 26, 2012, at 5:26:17
> > > Give the guy a break. It seems to me he is supporting you in what you said you wanted to do. If what you is for him to tell you that you don't know what you're talking about and to reassure you that things will get better then you need to say that to him instead. And I'm guessing that if he did say those things instead right now you'd be angry that he didn't understand how awful you felt.
> > > You probably aren't in a position to judge what his feelings about anything are right now. Most people would probably tell you not to make big decisions like quitting a job or selling a house in your current state of mind. That goes double for making important judgments about what the people closest to you are thinking or feeling. As impossible as it seems you have to try to keep a little bit of distance from your emotions right now. Perhaps picking a date - after the washout and after time for the nardil to start working - when you will allow yourself to feel these things might help you avoid getting overwhelmed by them right now
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> > Well that didn't help. If I had read your post last night I would probably be dead now. You have NO IDEA what my marriage is like and what it's been like even when I was feeling good. You'd do best to stay out of other people's business, especially when it comes to something like a cry for help when someone is suicidal. They should ALWAYS be taken seriously. I wasn't kidding last night, I really felt like there was no way out but to die, obviously you have never felt that way. I came on here as a cry for help, and luckily I read your completely non-helpful answer today when I was feeling better. Luckily I had read Juno's response last night and it helped me get through the night. PLEASE do not respond anymore to posters who are suicidal, you could very well cause their death.
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> You seem to have completely misunderstood my post. I have no idea whether your husband is a jerk or a saint. If you'd chosen to ask for clarification, instead of just attacking me, you might have spared yourself some unhappiness.
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I'm in no state to try to read between lines or ask for clarification. If you read through your post maybe you will see the lack of caring for the fact that I was suicidal and was crying for help. I'm sorry if I misunderstood you (I still don't understand what you were trying to say), and I'm sorry I attacked you; I was just very upset and emotional at the time, which happens when a person is going through a washout. Let's please just forget about the whole thing and move on. I wish you well
Kat
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