Posted by Partlycloudy on March 13, 2014, at 12:17:50
No sugar coating, my eye is wary where my marriage and spouse is concerned. I am also quite convinced of our deep love for each other. Our living arrangements suit me to the ground. My own room mainly consists of meditation and sacred space, the full bathroom with all my girly stuff in it, and some clothing.
It's not yet up to snuff as far as decor (to me) and are still many things tossed in there that require tossing out. But it has improved our relationship. Somehow, the pressure is off to be together and do stuff together ALL the time. Working from home and not having any current projects, my spouse turns to me to spend that time with, but now he knows it isn't healthy on a constant basis.
Therapy continues. Mine is envious of me having a Room of My Own at this point.
Sorry if this is boring. The ups and downs really are ups and downs, for us.
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