Posted by special_k on April 10, 2006, at 5:31:19
In reply to Re: Alternatives to hugs (long) » special_k, posted by Phillipa on April 8, 2006, at 21:50:28
> Eye contact is the most intimate thing there is. Ever make love and look into the persons eyes at the same time? Love Phillipa
er well making love might just be the most intimate thing there is... but eye contact can seem pretty close to that re intimacy at times... i think i went through a phase of thinking that eye contact was a lisence for someone to make an advance... and if someone managed to look me in the eyes i felt invaded... damned drunken guys... and some hugs can be pretty intimate too i guess... depends on setting and stuff i guess... some hugs are just nice and friendly. i imagine larry's TM bearhugs are like that. i imagine cyberhugs like that. i dunno. confusing... i think sometimes i just feel so much shame and feel like i wish i was invisible i wish i could fall through the floor someone looking at me just seems too invasive. too much to bear... pro's don't tend to kiss because they consider that too intimate (more intimate than letting someone f*ck them) but then i guess being f*cked is less intimate than making love... i dunno..but yeah. i know what you are talking about. can be nice yeah.
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