Posted by paxvox on June 4, 2003, at 17:49:33
In reply to Re: PAX, posted by Greg on June 3, 2003, at 17:28:51
Greg,
You're not actually my counselor posting under an assumed name are you? Those were almost his words, verbatim, today! He says (as you confirm objectively) that I DO need to put some space between she and I, and that I cannot have MY hapieness so closely tied to HER happieness. No, I have gotten beyond the "is it my fault?" phase of this issue. However, I guess I do have many of the co-dependent processes going on inside me. As for me feeling at peace, I do know that is possible w/o her, as you may have read my posts in March about being 17,000 feet up a mountain in Bolivia (Mt. Tunari). THERE I felt (what I then didn't recognize)total peace. I didn't have a care beyond that singular moment in time ( I could even send you a picture!). A lot more I could say right now, but I have to run. Thanks for taking the time to post.PAX
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