Posted by Shar on April 14, 2002, at 7:07:46
In reply to Re: Frighteningly in love, posted by beardedlady on April 14, 2002, at 6:10:51
I'm wondering if this is a good decision mainly because it is so uncharacteristic of you. Maybe it's chemicals, I don't know about that.
However, I wouldn't feel too comfortable making a decision based on what you've described, esp when you have 2 years worth of at least a very close friendship to deal with first. I may be old-fashioned, but I believe if you do things in a different order (ie, leave a dying relationship then decide what feels right to you re: this new man) you will ultimately feel better. If your 2 year relationship is not dying or ending in some way for you, I wonder what bringing a new person into the picture does. Other than create a triangle, and we all know triangles are best avoided.
It's no mistake that you said "frighteningly" in love. If nothing else, maybe it's best not to make big decisions while frightened (to me that makes me a little off balance, not the most rational thinking is done then).
Shar
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