Posted by Nadezda on July 30, 2009, at 0:26:33
In reply to Re: Should I quit? » Dinah, posted by gibbons482 on July 29, 2009, at 17:15:49
Gibbons, I wonder why you ask, because no one can possibly answer this, particularly if you can't tell.
Perhaps if you had a strong sense, but were checking to see if your perceptions or reasoning made sense to others, some of us might have experience with the same thing and be able to speak from that.
You've asked this question several times. It seems to me that you're undecided and ambivalent-- it doesn't feel right or comfortable, but you're not willing, or ready, or clear enough to move on. But it seems that the path of least resistance here is to stay. In which case, it makes sense to stay, until you become clearer that the best choice is to stop.
At some point, you may feel that you've become committed to the therapy and that it makes sense to go on with this T, or you may feel that it isn't working, and this isn't what you're looking for or need.
There actually is no general answer. I might find this woman just the person for me-- there's no knowing. The fit is a very individual process that either does or doesn't happen between two people--
I think the thing to do is just to continue thinking and feeling about this, until you feel more persuaded of what's best for you.
Nadezda
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