Posted by Recently on March 4, 2009, at 14:34:47
In reply to But I still leave feeling hurt sometimes, posted by Dinah on March 3, 2009, at 21:29:57
> Even though I may feel secure in the relationship as a whole.
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> He was falling asleep again, so I asked if I was speaking with a soothing voice again. He said yes, and when I asked what I could do to make it less soothing, he suggested speaking louder and putting more emotional energy into it. The only problem was that to my mind, I was just chock full of emotional energy. I don't mind the technical hints, but that *hurt*.
>Wow! That's a harsh thing he said to you. I would be so hurt by that statement. If it's such a problem, he should just get a cup of coffee... No matter how 'soothing' your voice is - it's still you talking, which means that should be enough to keep him conscious. If my T started to nod off I don't know what I would do.
(((Dinah)))
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