Posted by muffled on December 3, 2007, at 12:43:05
In reply to Re: Re; inside kids**mebbe triggers** » Muffled, posted by twinleaf on November 28, 2007, at 23:51:36
> The thing that is so hard to do is to think of all the parts as good parts of you, which got so badly hurt that they separated. I guess that is the work of therapy- to try to welcome them back so that they are all parts of a rich and varied you. You know, they didn't do anything wrong; they were little children who got terribly hurt. THEY aren't bad; the people or person who hurt them is. When you have the feeling that you have awful parts, could you try thinking of them in a more neutral way- not condemning them? Remember what RealMe said- she used to have separated parts, but now she doesn't. They are part of her, and she feels friendly and compassionate towards them- or, I guess, towards the memory of them. She did say, though, that she didn't lose them; they are part of her in a closer, more unified way.
**Thanks twinleaf....
The parts are both good and bad I guess. Like anybody. One of my favorite kids is Ikid and she is wonderful, but she can sometimes be sneaky, and sometimes gets jealous too. And Nasty, who really can be pretty bad, CAN be kind too. As for the one we all hate....well, we not sure, but it may be her that gets so delighted sometimes in a cute way, but her badness....:-(
Yes, we need to be at peace inside, that is what we need.
Thanks.
M
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