Posted by rskontos on October 23, 2007, at 17:30:46
In reply to Re: Pdoc/Real Me asked why I wouldn't shake hands » antigua3, posted by Sigismund on October 23, 2007, at 16:39:45
Antigua3, I finally responded to your thread about this p-doc and the past thing I couldn't get past. The name thing is another big one. It is too formal for the types of personal histories you would be sharing. If my T called me by my surname which is my H I too would think of my mother-in-law and we have a shaky relationship and I would bolt fast. It reminds of hands off don't get too close to me situation on the part of p-doc and how can that build a intimate relationship of sharing a deep personal issue of that which involves highly sensitives issues. Therapy involves highly sensitive issues and it is like he is saying stay back. Plus you say that he seems different yet he denies it. So I would venture to say that the relationship will only go so far. JMHO. I think I would not trust him too much myself. It would make me wonder if he wanted to really treat me or wanted a case history. Sorry I don't want to make you feel bad with that last statement but he is bothering me for you. I hope you call your T and let her know what he is doing to you so she can help you through this too! I am not sure you need him as much as your T who sounds more nururing than him. rk
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