Posted by JenStar on January 19, 2006, at 11:27:17
In reply to Re: What? » annierose, posted by Dinah on January 19, 2006, at 10:26:26
hi Dinah,
I'm glad he's taking responsibility! And it's true that he might have "forgotten" something else b/c he wanted to, and forgotten you just out of stress/etc.I do that sometimes. There are things I sort of forget-avoid out of a desire to avoid, and other things that I truly feel BAD about forgetting, and wish I hadn't.
I wish I had advice about reliance and how to handle it. I know things have changed since the hurricane - he's just NOT the same T he used to be for you.
I don't know if that means you have to stop relying on him entirely, though? Maybe there's a happy medium? Or is that impossible (asking myself here, too..)
Is it possible to "sort of" rely on someone, or is that basically the same thing as "not" relying on them? Interesting question to ponder...
JenStar
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