Posted by alexandra_k on May 2, 2005, at 19:23:53
In reply to Is Babble keeping me regressed?, posted by pinkeye on May 2, 2005, at 18:16:17
> Do any of you feel that babble makes you keep regressed and kind of wallowing in the mud?
Hmm. I wonder that at times. But then I think about how much it helps me move foward and stop wallowing in the mud too...
> I am thinking maybe since everyday I come here and read about other people's hardships with losing their T, it kind of evokes the feelings again and again for me. Even though personally I feel I am fully kind of recuperated from my transference and understood its origins and how it was really about my father and not about my ex T etc.Fully 'kind of' recuperated???? Maybe that the hurt comes up when you read about other peoples similar situation... Well, maybe that shows you that there are still a few issues around that...
I get that my transference is about my father.
But I still grieve.
After a while (or I should say at times)
I am not grieving about my t
So much as about my father.
Thats not resolved.
No way.
Maybe that is where you are at as well???
Maybe it would be helpful to talk about your father issues more?
Maybe people can help you start to make those
(the root of it all)
Better as well???> But I still find it hard to not hurt. Is it possible that reading therapy stories again and again is causing me to regress? Or is it the other way around? That I regress anyway, and coming here helps venting and curing and healing?
Hard to know hard to know.
> Anybody else felt it?Yeah.
Sometimes.
Though I really think it is the latter in my case.
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thread:492841
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