Posted by gardenergirl on August 11, 2004, at 20:37:20
In reply to Re: Urgent Dilemma, Need TOVacation Club Support, posted by BigFish on August 11, 2004, at 20:25:15
Daisy,
Do you get tired of hearing what a wonderful T you have? :) I can relate to the conflict over being grateful for the offer but then feeling needy and dependent. But I know he wouldn't have offered, and especially tell you that he has thought it over first, if he wasn't okay with it.My thoughts on whether or not to take him up on his offer??? I don't know. I think you are right, it could go both ways. What if you had him call your voicemail, at a time when you would not be there? Then, he has called, but there is no chance of it being like a session. You can even keep the message saying he's okay and still planning to return to play whenever you need it. I know you had asked for this prior, but maybe another call like that halfway through would be meaningful and reassuring?
Take care,
gg
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