Posted by fallsfall on September 5, 2003, at 8:18:25
In reply to Re: Fees and meaning » fallsfall, posted by Dinah on September 5, 2003, at 0:21:32
Penny wrote: How many people do you know that you like completely and totally one hundred percent??? I mean, really. There is ALWAYS something about someone you probably don't like. People are not perfect - and that's okay!
Gee, Dinah, that sounds an awful lot like what you were saying to me last night.
The other place in your life where I have seen this pattern is with your husband. You have felt that you are too much of a burden on him and that he would be better of without you.
I'm sure glad that you are here.
Also, don't you sometimes (not all the time) find neediness appealing - it gives you a chance to help someone else. It isn't always bad.
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