Posted by psychodad on June 15, 2004, at 14:37:55
In reply to Re: SOMEONE HELP ME, posted by starlight on June 15, 2004, at 11:15:06
Yeah, dude just chill. Talk to your wife. Come clean. Phone sex is no big deal anyway. Could of been worse. Your wife needs to be understanding and stick with you through the ups and downs. You'd feel soooo much better if you just talked it all out and then IMPORTANT - don't go f*** around again. Be a good husband to that woman.
Just talk to her and then straighten your a** out. Take Lex for a while and focus on the present and look torward the future. You are way overreacting, just chill. If you have worse skeletons in the closet, either talk to a therapist or a higher power first. Everyone has secrets. You don't have to tell everyone everything you've ever done if you don't want. It's a secret.
Feel bad about, fine, but work towards doing things that make you feel good about yourself. Stop drinking, smoking, jerking off, excerise, diet, go to church, whatever, point is focus on the positive as much as possible and tip that balance baby!
I know it's hard, but if you get thoughts of guilt, try to think of ways you can better your world and community and then go do something! And stop whining, and take Lexapro if you want.
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