Posted by proud mary on January 29, 2003, at 10:36:29
In reply to Re: interesting development?, posted by Theresa Rae on January 28, 2003, at 15:22:28
Theresa,
Piano lessons for YOU...DEFINATELY a good thing!
I recognize some of the traits you said your husband possesses--procrastination, beginning many projects but having a difficult time finishing them, disorganization...I recognize them because I do those things! I am not ADD, by the way.
I'm beginning to think he needs psychologic help more than psychiatric help. I am very aware of my shortcomings but women are usually more introspective than men, anyway. I know I have these things about me that bug ME, but I also read to find solutions and talk it over with people I feel can help me and motivate me (including a therapist). Again, men are less apt to be introspective and try to figure out what the heck is going on with themselves mood-wise and all, so you might have to back off big time until he notices you are carrying on with your life just fine..that tends to get their attention!
However, this is just theory. Hopefully he will follow up with his appointments and that will lead to more help, therapy, whatever he might need.Again, good luck and keep us posted!
Mary
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