Posted by LLL on August 6, 2002, at 21:41:34
In reply to Re: How Parnate saved my butt » Ritch, posted by hildi on August 6, 2002, at 19:38:48
Cybercafe - as someone who does not suffer from depression or social anxiety disorder, and am fine in social situations, (as long as I can get there!) I can tell you that the rest of the so-called "normals" out there find socializing to be somewhat of a chore as well. I also have to force myself at times to socialize, it doesn't come naturally for me or most people. If you look around, the ones who appear to be most comfortable are those who are tanked. Since I don't drink, either on or off MAOI's, I can see there's a big difference in social situations for those who do drink and those who don't. Those who drink are medicating themselves because they too are anxious, or awkward, or self conscious or .... When I'm with people I know it's easier, but it still takes effort. Believe me, it's hard for EVERYONE and you need to give yourself more credit. People who tell you they're totally comfortable meeting and talking and socializing with others are either a)lying b)buzzed on alcohol or drugs during the process or c)so slick they're not likeable! Go easy on yourself, and keep on keeping on!
Good Luck!
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