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Posted by Wildcard11 on April 10, 2006, at 7:57:45
~call an ex b/friends mothers house to see if he got married???? she is really sweet and i really want to just speak w/ him and let him know i made it through hell. i was lost when we dated and broke his heart. he is/was a CMPD officer and a great guy but i had things to deal with. i do not want to call him if he is married...i don't think it is a very considerate thing to do...ahhhhhhh
Posted by ClearSkies on April 10, 2006, at 8:05:51
In reply to should i, should i not???, posted by Wildcard11 on April 10, 2006, at 7:57:45
I would sit on my hands rather than call. It hasn't worked well for me in the past - guilt, hurt, regret... I have felt it all over again.
So I'd try to wait this urge out.ClearSkies
Posted by Wildcard11 on April 10, 2006, at 8:51:42
In reply to Re: should i, should i not??? » Wildcard11, posted by ClearSkies on April 10, 2006, at 8:05:51
yeah, i've been weighing this for weeks and keep asking myself,"what is the point"...i guess i just want the people that truly cared about my self destructive path after the assault to know i'm okay...i made it and i'm sorry for the hurt i caused. i've made it very very hard for anyone to find me. maybe let sleeping dogs lye???
Posted by Phillipa on April 10, 2006, at 10:26:23
In reply to Re: should i, should i not??? » ClearSkies, posted by Wildcard11 on April 10, 2006, at 8:51:42
I did it once and he was married with two kids and happy too. I was happy for him but sad for me. Love Phillipa
Posted by LegWarmers on April 10, 2006, at 22:57:06
In reply to Re: should i, should i not??? » ClearSkies, posted by Wildcard11 on April 10, 2006, at 8:51:42
> maybe let sleeping dogs lye???
as hard as it is, yeah... I would.
Posted by wildcard11 on April 11, 2006, at 2:23:27
In reply to Re: should i, should i not???, posted by LegWarmers on April 10, 2006, at 22:57:06
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