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Posted by tina on June 5, 2003, at 15:35:57
My husband told me he wants to leave. It's over for me. The camel's back isn't just broken, he's dead.
Posted by NikkiT2 on June 5, 2003, at 15:58:17
In reply to breaking point, posted by tina on June 5, 2003, at 15:35:57
*hugs*
Honey.. I wish I knew what to say to make you feel better.. But you know you can survive without him, and you will become a much stronger person for this.
But its gonna hurt.. you *will* get through this pain though
*more hugs*
Nikki xxx
Posted by justyourlaugh on June 5, 2003, at 16:12:12
In reply to Re: breaking point » tina, posted by NikkiT2 on June 5, 2003, at 15:58:17
sweet tina,,
i am real sad for you....
however ,mabe , your sole mate is waiting for you around the next corner...
i bet he will have you smiling and laughing everyday...or mabe you could swing the other way and share the rest of your life with a woman..
my husband keeps insisting i really wanted to marry one because i get annoyed when he openly picks his nose and "adjusts"his boys....
please be safe
email me
love
Posted by paxvox on June 5, 2003, at 17:18:05
In reply to breaking point, posted by tina on June 5, 2003, at 15:35:57
I guess this seems too obvious, but have you asked him to go to couseling about it FIRST? Was it something you saw coming that had just cause, or was it just out of the blue? I mean, my wife would bolt right now if she could figure a way how to do it, but at least (after 8 years of asking) she has agreed to go to marriage counseling. So that gives me some hope, albeit somewhat qualified. I guess I have not been following your posts enough to know the history here, but I will say it ain't over till the ink has dried on the papers.
PAX
Posted by justyourlaugh on June 5, 2003, at 18:37:26
In reply to Re: breaking point, posted by paxvox on June 5, 2003, at 17:18:05
pax,,,even then,,
time heals...
what if i died when i thought i neede to go?
what if walked out on them when i thought it was in their best interest...what if....
sometimes living with me is hard and he wants to walk...
such emotions,such hurt...
pax i hope she is improving
j
Posted by Dinah on June 5, 2003, at 19:50:47
In reply to breaking point, posted by tina on June 5, 2003, at 15:35:57
I'm so sorry, Tina. I know you were worried about things with him, but it must have still been a shock to hear that.
I know it hurts. A lot. But you can get through it, however hard it seems to be to imagine it.
Can you go visit your grandmother (am I remembering correctly? is it your grandmother who you visit and who helps you feel renewed?). We care about you so much here, but in times like this real life arms are a big help too.
In the meantime, here's some cyber arms to hold you.
(((((Tina)))))
Posted by fallsfall on June 5, 2003, at 20:23:59
In reply to breaking point, posted by tina on June 5, 2003, at 15:35:57
Tina,
Your world will never be the same, it is true.
When my husband and I separated I found that I could be "me" in ways that I hadn't been able to for years. Look for opportunities, but take all the hugs you can get.
((((((((Tina))))))))
Posted by tina on June 7, 2003, at 9:44:08
In reply to breaking point, posted by tina on June 5, 2003, at 15:35:57
Posted by noa on June 7, 2003, at 16:25:27
In reply to breaking point, posted by tina on June 5, 2003, at 15:35:57
Tina, sigh, I'm so sorry. Make sure to take care of yourself through this difficult time.
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