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Re: he has given up on me » happyflower

Posted by Dinah on August 16, 2006, at 19:08:53

In reply to he has given up on me, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 19:01:32

Sweetie, didn't you bring it up?

I know he shouldn't have done anything to make it seem he thought it was a fine idea, because that's just not too empathetic of him. Sometimes I'd like to teach therapists what clients really want from them.

But don't forget that it was your idea first.

He wasn't trying to ditch you.

 

never mind anyways

Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 19:09:48

In reply to he has given up on me, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 19:01:32

Thank you all who have been there for me over the last year or so but I must leave babble.

 

Oh, No You Don't » happyflower

Posted by Poet on August 16, 2006, at 19:15:35

In reply to never mind anyways, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 19:09:48

uh, uh, no. I am stomping my size eight foot so hard it's going to go through the floor. Why do you think you have to leave babble? I know you're hurting, but maybe we could help you get through your therapist nightmare. Really, give us a shot, okay?

One incredibly hard and long cyber slap directly to your therapist's head.

Poet

 

Re: never mind anyways

Posted by sunnydays on August 16, 2006, at 19:15:55

In reply to never mind anyways, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 19:09:48

(((((happyflower)))))

please take care of yourself, whether you're at babble or not. You soooooo deserve it. Remember, people here care about you. We don't want to see you hurting. (((happyflower)))

sunnydays

 

Re: never mind anyways

Posted by Dinah on August 16, 2006, at 19:16:10

In reply to never mind anyways, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 19:09:48

Happyflower, i've got to eat now. But I'll be in babblechat later if you want to talk.

 

Re: never mind anyways » Dinah

Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 20:22:30

In reply to Re: never mind anyways, posted by Dinah on August 16, 2006, at 19:16:10

Thanks Dinah for talking to me in chat. I will call tonight and leave a message for him to get in the morning. I hope he calls back.

 

Re: Oh, No You Don't » Poet

Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 20:23:57

In reply to Oh, No You Don't » happyflower, posted by Poet on August 16, 2006, at 19:15:35

Thanks poet,

I never knew I could laugh and cry at the same time. But thanks it released some stress. ;-) I guess I am just a basket case lately.

 

Re: never mind anyways

Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 20:24:54

In reply to Re: never mind anyways, posted by sunnydays on August 16, 2006, at 19:15:55

Thanks for the support sunnydays. I think I will stick around and not hide like I always want to do when I feel so bad. I am going to call my T .

 

above post for sunnydays (nm)

Posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 20:31:32

In reply to Re: never mind anyways, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 20:24:54

 

i feel so drained this morning

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 8:45:47

In reply to above post for sunnydays (nm), posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 20:31:32

I didn't sleep well all night, I had horrible dreams, woke up a lot. I finally got up at 8:30, normally I am up by 6am.

I called my T and left a voice mail at his office. He normally calls me back in the morning. I asked for an appointment ASAP, don't know it I will get in before Monday though because in the summer he takes Fridays off.

I am sitting here drinking coffee in such a daze. My DH is home this week and he made breakfast. It was good, but I feel like going back to bed. My life feels like an emotional rollercoaster.

 

Re: Oh, No You Don't » happyflower

Posted by Poet on August 17, 2006, at 8:51:49

In reply to Re: Oh, No You Don't » Poet, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 20:23:57

Hi Happyflower,

Pass the reeds or whatever they make baskets out of I'll weave one with you.

Let us know what your T says. I hope he tells you he has a bad headache today.

Poet

 

Re: Oh, No You Don't » Poet

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 8:53:37

In reply to Re: Oh, No You Don't » happyflower, posted by Poet on August 17, 2006, at 8:51:49

oh, poet, you should be a comedian instead. LOL

Maybe I need to order that running photo of him and throw darts at him. ;-)

 

Re: i feel so drained this morning » happyflower

Posted by LadyBug on August 17, 2006, at 10:21:37

In reply to i feel so drained this morning, posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 8:45:47

Happyflower
Why does this have to be so hard????? I hope you get a call back from him and he can see you today. And if you do get to see him, that it helps you!!!! Please don't leave babble. We haven't hurt you have we? Or at least I don't think I have and I would miss you a lot. You and I have some things in common and so I understand what you are going through. I find comfort in babble even though I don't post enough. I'm going through a very hard struggle with therapy at the moment. I called my T yesterday and told her I wanted to take a break. I told her I would talk to her in Sept. and go from there. She called me back, left me a message as well, saying she thought we should chat, that taking a break wasn't a good idea right now. I'm wondering if she is just thinking of her pocket book. I told her I wasn't feeling my self emotionally from all that I've gone through with my surgeries and I didn't think things were going well between her and I. They aren't. Sorry to make this about me. It's heavy on my mind today. I'm at work, my appointment is tonight, and I don't know what to tell her? I don't want to go. I'm mad at her anyway, that's more the reason I want to take a break.
Let me know what happens next ok?
It's so FREAKIN hard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hang in there, so will I.
Hugs
LadyBug

 

Re: I cancelled my T appointment

Posted by susan47 on August 17, 2006, at 18:41:05

In reply to I cancelled my T appointment, posted by happyflower on August 16, 2006, at 14:49:04

Yes, I can relate to that oh boy. M-hm, yes, sometimes it is Better to cover your head with the blanket and shut the world out. Out World, Out, World, Out.

 

he called today

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:08:04

In reply to Re: I cancelled my T appointment, posted by susan47 on August 17, 2006, at 18:41:05

I m a little drunk right now. LOL but he did call late morning. He didn't book my orginal appointment, it is mine. H e sai d he is going out of town on friday and on Tuesday to tak ehi daugher to collage so I am lucky I still have monday.
I don't know, I feel like just blasting him with everything, my thouhts my feelings, and everything. Hold on to your seats, sh*t is going to happen. I need him, especailly now. but right now I am planning a bon fire with teh my DH and kdis. My dh isn't such an *ss when I am druunk. Oh well the little f*cker. Did I say I hate his gusts.

 

Re: he called today

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:10:56

In reply to he called today, posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:08:04

I love my T he is so beaututifl. He will save me . I need him, even thought he wants to f*ck my brains out, he still cares. He is the best T I could ever deal with . xoxooxoxoxo why does he have to be so damn cute?

 

Re: he called today

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:12:48

In reply to he called today, posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:08:04

just ignor eme I don't know what I am saying but it feels so damn good. maybe I should drink more. belevdere martini and merlot wine and DH is going to get some kaulula , yum. I don't care I just want to get totally f*cked up. It feels good.

 

Re: he called today

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:13:43

In reply to he called today, posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:08:04

but he better not try to touch me or it will be penis in the jar poem that I wrote. Haaaaa

 

HONEYBUN!!!

Posted by susan47 on August 17, 2006, at 21:22:59

In reply to Re: he called today, posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:13:43

I haven't laughed this hard in years.
I LOVE YOU!!!!

Yes, and I wish your T would get a good f*cking-over from you and the best thing that could happen is that he'd get as pissed as you are and you both have a f*cking great time and you f*ck each other's *ss off and forget about it the next day.
Oh yeah.
Forever and ever yum yum.
Yummy yum yum use your DH baby, lights out just use the hell out of him but make sure you don't get pregnant ... hahahaha.
Oh hell.
F*ck his brains out and yell out any old name you want to.
I love you when you're pissed.

 

And the way you talk » happyflower

Posted by susan47 on August 17, 2006, at 21:26:32

In reply to he called today, posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 20:08:04

Just makes me so hot, soooo hot for my ex-T I need to get out the vibrator the movies the books .. oh sometimes solo sex can be fun but un-satisfying to some degree, oh yes.
At least I have privacy,
hahahahahahaaAA

 

Re: HONEYBUN!!! » susan47

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 21:50:46

In reply to HONEYBUN!!!, posted by susan47 on August 17, 2006, at 21:22:59

Hey love, my DH had the "snip snip", he has blanks!!!! HAHAAHA. I wonder what he would think if I yelled out ohhh dr. BBBBBB!!!!

ACTUALLY i AM NOT THAT DRUNK , MY dh CAN KEEP HIS HANDS OFF MY GORGOUS BODY!!!! lol OPPOS, HOW DO YOUGET THE CAPTS TO STOP WORKING. hAHAA!

 

Re: And the way you talk p.s. dianah » susan47

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 21:57:50

In reply to And the way you talk » happyflower, posted by susan47 on August 17, 2006, at 21:26:32

YOU ARE A NAUGHtER GIRL! LOL! HAVE FUN! lol the caps are attacking me tonight, make them stop, make them stop. wheeww! Happyflower shouldn't drink, I am totally nuts. Did i tell you I had a belevedare maritini, 3 glasses of wine, and 3 kalulula and crems. boy am I goin to be sick in the morning. My T can f*ck me! My DH can f*ck off. My mom can go to rott in f*ck hell, and the world can kiss my pattutti ruutti! Hahahahahah! Just ignore me I am insane at the momemt. hahaha! ANd I don't care

p.s dianah I think I found a good drug vodka , wine and kalula! lol hey it is cheaper! lol

 

Re: And the way you talk p.s. dianah

Posted by susan47 on August 17, 2006, at 22:00:19

In reply to Re: And the way you talk p.s. dianah » susan47, posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 21:57:50

Try vodka kahlua and cream that's pretty yummy. The wine is going to make you sick though, ew. I don't wanna be you in a few hours.
Oh god.
Head for the john now while you still have a chance.

 

I think I discovered a new therapy being drunk lol (nm)

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 22:00:49

In reply to Re: And the way you talk p.s. dianah » susan47, posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 21:57:50

 

Re: And the way you talk p.s. dianah » susan47

Posted by happyflower on August 17, 2006, at 22:02:08

In reply to Re: And the way you talk p.s. dianah, posted by susan47 on August 17, 2006, at 22:00:19

hey love, I love wine it is my first choice, what can I say I am that kind of classy chickie! lol


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