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Posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 14:22:26
My T wanted to come to my jazz concert but since it is late at night and he has an early speech to give at a high school, so he is going to my wind ensemble concert instead (boring). Well I thought maybe I could persuade him to come anyways.
I thought I would tell him I would be wearing a black leather skirt, with black leather knee high boots and fish net stockings, and maybe no panties! Do you think that would work? Do you think he will turn red? LOL I am so bad!!!!!! I can't help it ! :)
Posted by crazy teresa on October 16, 2005, at 14:32:18
In reply to I feel like being a naughty therapy client! : ), posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 14:22:26
Posted by crazy teresa on October 16, 2005, at 14:34:55
In reply to I feel like being a naughty therapy client! : ), posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 14:22:26
I think you're having too much fun with this sexual power you now have over men! You go girl! ;~}
Posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 14:38:51
In reply to You know what? » happyflower, posted by crazy teresa on October 16, 2005, at 14:34:55
> I think you're having too much fun with this sexual power you now have over men! You go girl! ;~}
I think I just need to get laid, NOW in the worst way! AAAUUUUGGGHHHHH! TOTAL SEXUAL FRUSTERATION!!!!!!!
Posted by Tamar on October 16, 2005, at 15:50:14
In reply to I feel like being a naughty therapy client! : ), posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 14:22:26
> My T wanted to come to my jazz concert but since it is late at night and he has an early speech to give at a high school, so he is going to my wind ensemble concert instead (boring). Well I thought maybe I could persuade him to come anyways.
> I thought I would tell him I would be wearing a black leather skirt, with black leather knee high boots and fish net stockings, and maybe no panties! Do you think that would work? Do you think he will turn red? LOL I am so bad!!!!!! I can't help it ! :)How could he possibly resist? Heck, I might even come...
Posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 20:18:45
In reply to I feel like being a naughty therapy client! : ), posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 14:22:26
Posted by Tamar on October 16, 2005, at 20:22:04
In reply to sorry if I am offending anyone reading this. (nm), posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 20:18:45
Posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 9:45:05
In reply to you're not offending me (nm) » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 16, 2005, at 20:22:04
Just a normal guy, nothing special, doing nothing more than adding to my fantasies! LOL It has been over a month since I saw those sexy legs, oh baby, and that sexy smile.
Next time I see him in the corner doing stretches, I think I will go straddle him and make him work a little harder at all his muscles! LOL Okay, I hope he doesn't read here! LOL :) If he does, let get it on, in the morning baby! LOL
Posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 10:07:39
In reply to Saw my T at the gym today! :), posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 9:45:05
Now that I am almost done with therapy, I just want to make senusual longlasting love to my sexy therapist. I don't need his help, I just need him to touch me everywhere. That would cure everything! LOL This must be a crazy disorder! Or maybe it has been too many months without any sex! I wish my T wasn't so dam# sexy and cute. Note nextime, if I ever need another therapist, find the ugliest one available! LOL
I don't think my T realizes how nuts I really am, or he would commit me! :) Do you think T 's are trained in case their clients go into their office and just want to f@ck their brain out? LOL Mostly I am kidding here, so I hope I don't offend anyone. I am just nuts, but then again you all probably already know that! :) I am going crazy!
Posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 10:10:25
In reply to You guys must think I am nuts! lol, posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 10:07:39
Should I just call up my T this morning and demand that I must see him NOW because I am going crazy because all I want to do is get laid? And he is the only one that will do ?
Posted by JenStar on October 17, 2005, at 10:48:42
In reply to Saw my T at the gym today! :), posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 9:45:05
Sounds like a nice view! :) Does he work out at the same time as you often? I guess that could be quite an incentive to get out the gym more often. :)
JenStar
Posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 11:36:26
In reply to Re: Saw my T at the gym today! :) » happyflower, posted by JenStar on October 17, 2005, at 10:48:42
> Sounds like a nice view! :) Does he work out at the same time as you often? I guess that could be quite an incentive to get out the gym more often. :)
>
> JenStarYes, he works out usually in the morning when I am there during bad or cold weather, otherwise, he runs outside. I am there everyday, so it is always nice to see in once in awhile! Very nice view! :)
Posted by happyflower on October 18, 2005, at 4:04:42
In reply to Re: Saw my T at the gym today! :) » JenStar, posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 11:36:26
I lost my head for awhile with this. I really just want my DH to want me that is all. Sorry I went overboard with my sexual feelings. I am sorry I disrespected my T like that. I am sorry for my hallucinations. But I am okay now. Thank goodness I don't have therapy for 3 more weeks.
Posted by happyflower on October 18, 2005, at 4:14:01
In reply to Sorry, posted by happyflower on October 18, 2005, at 4:04:42
Posted by Tamar on October 19, 2005, at 17:36:03
In reply to Sorry, posted by happyflower on October 18, 2005, at 4:04:42
> I lost my head for awhile with this. I really just want my DH to want me that is all. Sorry I went overboard with my sexual feelings. I am sorry I disrespected my T like that. I am sorry for my hallucinations. But I am okay now. Thank goodness I don't have therapy for 3 more weeks.
You don't need to apologise! Sometimes we need to blow off steam, especially about sexual feelings for therapists, because there aren't many places we can do that!
I really don't think you've disrespected him. Most men are wildly flattered if attractive women express an interest in them!
There is nothing dirty about your interest in your T. It's healthy, natural and good for you. Keep enjoying it!
Tamar
Posted by happyflower on October 19, 2005, at 19:27:41
In reply to Re: Sorry » happyflower, posted by Tamar on October 19, 2005, at 17:36:03
Thanks Tamar for you kind words. I am glad you said something because I was so ashamed of myself and when nobody said anything, I thought I must of went too far again.
I feel kinda of guilty about the sexual feelings because he is being such a great T , even being nice enough to maybe come to one of my concerts, and I want to ruin everything nice in the relationship because I want to jump his bones. I bet if I told him he wouldn't even come to the concert then. I really like him and I don't want to mess up the nice relationship that we have developed. It is so confusing sometimes. I just don't know if you can have a real friend of the opposite sex. But then again, they can't be our friends anyways, so maybe I should jump his bones! LOL sorry again. :) Thanks again. :)
Posted by daisym on October 19, 2005, at 22:39:53
In reply to Re: Sorry » Tamar, posted by happyflower on October 19, 2005, at 19:27:41
I know you were just having fun...I wish I could be as bold! I think the feelings you speak on and off about are so normal. I've written about mine, and no one thought I was disrespecting my therapist. It would be interesting to see what his response would be, I doubt it would mess things up.
:)
Posted by allisonross on October 20, 2005, at 9:22:47
In reply to Re: You know what? » crazy teresa, posted by happyflower on October 16, 2005, at 14:38:51
Just a quick "blurb" you lil hussy you! I TOTALLY relate ([email protected]).........Last halloween I dressed in a costume, with a policewoman's dress underneath, I turned on the CD, danced for my T, his eyes were glazed over, LOL, LOL, and then proceeded to take off the costume (he didn't know I had a dress on underneath, LOL), I then handcuffed him, told him he was under arrest for being a bad kisser (I had had a dream that he kissed me, and he was terrible!).......I think he is STILL in shock. I have an idea of this halloween. Gonna be Marian the Librarian...Gonna dress up in a severe little suit, have my (hip length hair) in a bun, glasses, carrying books and a ruler, then ---take my hair down, whip off the glasses, unbutton the suite (cleavage, ahem), and say: suggestively (I Love the power of subtlety, ---he knows I love to be subtle, and he says that is why is is so worried! LOL)............SO, anything you wanna......CHECK OUT??!! Write me ! We can compare frustrations; I may not last much longer.....My t asked me how much longer could I stand NOT having sex? I told him "About two and a half minutes" LOL, LOL
Posted by Annierose on October 20, 2005, at 9:59:53
In reply to Re: You know what?/HappyFlower/Pls.READ, posted by allisonross on October 20, 2005, at 9:22:47
Wow, my jawed dropped to my knees reading your post. You acted out this fantasy, then what ....
Is your therapist able to talk about what just happened with you ... was your session productive "therapy-wise" afterwards? I admire your courage to let your therapist know how attractive you find him to be. But now, he needs to help you explore those feelings. I can't get over the fact you handcuffed him, and he let you.Imagine him telling his colleagues. He is probably looking forward to this Halloween. When he asked you how much longer could you stand not having sex, did he mean with him? Your T sounds semi-seductive.
Posted by allisonross on October 20, 2005, at 10:08:14
In reply to Re: You guys must think I am nuts! lol, posted by happyflower on October 17, 2005, at 10:10:25
That'z ME! LOL (Am repeating a posting)...I'd had a dream that my therapist (am in love with him for 2 yrs now)......very painful, but as I told him...I'd rather be in pain WITH him, than without him.....Last halloween, I wore a policewoman's costume under my outer...costume......I brought a CD (You can take your hat off) and danced (modestly of course, LOL); my T sat there with eyes glazed (I think), and when I was done, I took handcuffs, and cuffed him, and said: "You are under arrest for being a bad kisser!" For this year's Halloween, I intend to be Marian the Librarian (I have hip-length hair); hey I am 59; people guess my age at 39)I FEEl 18;......gonna wear a severe little suit all buttoned up (bustier underneath jacket), hair in a bun, glasses, with some books and a ruler....gonna whip off my jacket (cleavage ya know), take the pins out of my hair, take off the glasses and suggestively say: SO......anything you'd like to CHECK.....OUT?! Get it/ check out? library? LOL, LOL.........My T asked how long could I go without sex, etc., etc (always embarrasses me, cause he uses explicit/you know, the REAL names for body parts; I always cringe; I told him our sexual body parts should be called pretty names....such as Bird of paradise (for women), and call it the chrysanthemum for the guy's, ahhh.....part!.......So he sez: "how much more time can you spend getting hungrier and hungrier?" (and, unfortunately it is for HIM--he knows it).....I said, ahhhh.. approximately 2.5 minutes (couldn't resist always being a smart-a**)....He told me he knows no one like me; neither do I! He's been teasin the life out of me for 2 years; it is time to PUT UP or shut up, LOL!!!!
Posted by allisonross on October 20, 2005, at 10:22:29
In reply to Re: You know what?/HappyFlower/Pls.READ » allisonross, posted by Annierose on October 20, 2005, at 9:59:53
Hi, Annie: Still new at this; so hope you get the response. I've been with him for 3 years; and we have had an amazing relationship....there's nothing we cannot discuss...when I have been angry with him, I tell him; he says he deeply respects that I "bring up the hard stuff" No, when he asked me how long I could stand to go without sex (at least consciously), he simply meant.....that? No references to himself (although he knows that is what I want)......I amaze myself at my abilit to be strong and not act on my feelings. Semi-seductive? No, i would say he IS seductive (something he told me that I....was) I could tell you LOTS of other things he has said/done...I tease the life out of him---he told me the reason I loved being outrageous was it made me feel "sexy." I waited a long time to tell him I had feelings for him (it was a loooong discussion, he was incredibly respectful and sensitive......I then waited another long period of time to tell him that I thought He had feelings for ME---he said he was "deeply in love with his wife"---i realized later, he had NOT answered my question); i sat there for 2 hours, calmly, professionally, acting like nothing traumatic had happened, and then got in my car and broke down sobbing---i told him that and we discussed it.....He says i am dangerous (LOL), cause he knows I am subtle; if I told you what he did LAST week.....I believe he loves his wife, but I also believe....he is in love with me (actually he has said it 2 times--"Isn't it enough that I love you?"), but in a way....he said that he "falls in love with ALL of his clients" and I understand that meaning..i could write a book about our relationship, but then...he'd be arrested! LOL, LOL
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