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Posted by gardenergirl on May 6, 2005, at 15:36:54
Miss you and thinking of you.
gg
Posted by Dinah on May 6, 2005, at 18:46:30
In reply to Daisy???, posted by gardenergirl on May 6, 2005, at 15:36:54
Posted by gardenergirl on May 7, 2005, at 19:44:36
In reply to I was just thinking the same thing. (nm), posted by Dinah on May 6, 2005, at 18:46:30
I cleaned the bathroom today. Couldn't stand it anymore. It's sparkling now. No comments from the peanut gallery so far. :(
gg
Posted by daisym on May 8, 2005, at 21:41:11
In reply to By the way, I caved finally, Daisy!, posted by gardenergirl on May 7, 2005, at 19:44:36
Urg -- husbands!
Life has become a nightmare so I'm distracted and busy. Yes, I'm terrified that I don't have the strength to make it through this challenge. I'm completely disconnected from my therapist, he just can't help right now. It is interesting that my attachment/separation issues could completely evaporate like this.
So, I won't be here much, at least for awhile. I wanted to say how much all of you have meant to me and how much I've loved being part of this community. You've helped me through some really dark days. No matter what else is bad in my life, this place has always been safe haven.
I love you all.
Daisy
Posted by shrinking violet on May 8, 2005, at 21:52:42
In reply to Re: By the way, I caved finally, Daisy!, posted by daisym on May 8, 2005, at 21:41:11
Posted by TofuEmmy on May 8, 2005, at 22:17:56
In reply to Re: By the way, I caved finally, Daisy!, posted by daisym on May 8, 2005, at 21:41:11
Daisy - Sure sounds like you are turning away from Babble, but that's a no no. Your friends here need you to be well. You've helped so many of us. I need you here, durn it all girl.
Don't make me beg. Ok, fine. Pulleezz? Keep posting so I know you're OK. Or else, gg, falls and I will have to hunt you down, and we'll surely get lost. Then we'll stop for ice cream, and, well, then we'll have to find a Starbucks....oh heck. Just keep posting please!!
Missing you. Big hugs, emmy
Posted by gardenergirl on May 8, 2005, at 22:35:18
In reply to Re: By the way, I caved finally, Daisy!, posted by daisym on May 8, 2005, at 21:41:11
Daisy,
Thanks for checking in with us. I'm sorry things are so bad right now. And I'm sorry to hear that you and your T are not connecting.I would imagine this is a very busy time for you. I know that graduation has either just happened or is right around the corner, and I know that will be tough for you. If it helps, imagine us with you, standing at your side offering silent support.
Please try to set aside anything that is not urgent right now. Take it as easy as you can. We'll be here waiting for you when you feel up to posting again.
We love you too, and miss you.
Sending you strength and calm....
((((Daisy))))
gg
Posted by fallsfall on May 9, 2005, at 8:20:17
In reply to Re: By the way, I caved finally, Daisy! » daisym, posted by gardenergirl on May 8, 2005, at 22:35:18
Last I heard, Daisy's "nightmare" was work related. She is trying to avert/recover from a disaster at work. So she told me that she wouldn't be posting much because she was focusing her energies on work.
Perhaps she means that the attachment issues with her therapist are taking a back seat to her work issues. And that her therapist can't be as helpful when she is trying to resolve technical work issues as he can be when she is dealing with personal stuff. At least that is what I am hoping...
I will remind her, however, that there are lots of business-smart people on this board, too. Perhaps we can help her with her business problem, too!
I don't believe that she is planning on going anywhere. I think she is just alluding to being so wrapped up in her business issue that she doesn't have time to post much.
Of course, she can speak for herself (and I'm sure she will!)
Posted by B2chica on May 9, 2005, at 9:39:43
In reply to Re: By the way, I caved finally, Daisy!, posted by daisym on May 8, 2005, at 21:41:11
You will be missed but you need to put you first. please post when you can.
You've helped me so much in the past...
(((((((((((daisyM))))))))))))))
Posted by pinkeye on May 9, 2005, at 13:43:55
In reply to Re: By the way, I caved finally, Daisy!, posted by daisym on May 8, 2005, at 21:41:11
We might be able to help you through this difficult time.. You can just come here and vent. If that will help you.
Posted by annierose on May 9, 2005, at 16:36:26
In reply to Re: By the way, I caved finally, Daisy!, posted by daisym on May 8, 2005, at 21:41:11
Sorry life is so overwhelming right now. I hate those days, weeks, that sometimes even turn into months. Sucks!
And I know what you mean about therapy not being helpful during those intense moments. For me, I resented taking time off of work to come in and b*tch about how far behind I was at work. Frustrating.
Plus you have so many things happening at work, with your husband's illness.
I'm thinking of you and hope that this time will pass quickly!!
-Annierose
Posted by Poet on May 9, 2005, at 17:51:59
In reply to Re: By the way, I caved finally, Daisy!, posted by daisym on May 8, 2005, at 21:41:11
Hi Daisy,
Take the all the time you need. Remember we're here for you when you're ready to come back.
Poet
Posted by Dinah on May 9, 2005, at 18:31:45
In reply to Visit when you can » daisym, posted by Poet on May 9, 2005, at 17:51:59
Drop by when you can, and please remember to take care of yourself too. If that means not being attached, then that's fine. If that means being attached, then that's fine too.
The fates just aren't doling out troubles evenly right now are they? You don't need work emergencies on top of all else.
I haven't a bit of business savvy, but I'll send as many positive thoughts as I can muster your way.
Posted by messadivoce on May 10, 2005, at 1:11:30
In reply to Daisy???, posted by gardenergirl on May 6, 2005, at 15:36:54
We will miss you!! I hope you can be back soon. ((((Daisy))))
Posted by mair on May 11, 2005, at 4:29:06
In reply to Sending peaceful thoughts, posted by messadivoce on May 10, 2005, at 1:11:30
I'm sorry you're having to go through so much - it really seems unfair.
I hope things resolve themselves and that you can make it back soon.
We'll all be thinking about you.
mair
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