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Posted by lifeworthliving on May 2, 2004, at 18:34:05
i get massages a few times a month from a massage therapist. i can't remember what they are called but it's specific strokes etc. and the point is to find, feel, and express. i'm very uncomfy sometimes (feel too naked, etc) but always feel safe, and it does feel constructive... like it's worth the discomfort. lately i've complained a lot (per massage therp) and she feels resentful (can't do her job)as i ask her to leave stuff out, or to skip that part (stomach, esp. she sort of got angry last time and basically put me on restriction. lol
i got back in and made an appt. for next week. she called today and asked what i thought about staying dressed next time and allowing my talk therp in the appt. thinking about it too much makes me nervous but i do know that i'll be ok. has anyone done bodywork before and with their therapist in the room? it was explained to me that massage person will be support now and my therapist will lead the session. they last two hours... i'm having a hard time imagining what this will look like. i like the part about leaving my clothes on. lol
-- life
Posted by tinydancer on May 3, 2004, at 2:05:19
In reply to Therapeutic Bodywork, posted by lifeworthliving on May 2, 2004, at 18:34:05
This sounds so great. I hate massage but I know its only because I'm afraid. If I had the money I think I would start getting a massage once a week for theraupetic purposes to work on my comfort level being touched. Sorry I can't help you with your question but I just wanted to chime in that this sounds like a great, positive activity.
> i get massages a few times a month from a massage therapist. i can't remember what they are called but it's specific strokes etc. and the point is to find, feel, and express. i'm very uncomfy sometimes (feel too naked, etc) but always feel safe, and it does feel constructive... like it's worth the discomfort. lately i've complained a lot (per massage therp) and she feels resentful (can't do her job)as i ask her to leave stuff out, or to skip that part (stomach, esp. she sort of got angry last time and basically put me on restriction. lol
> i got back in and made an appt. for next week. she called today and asked what i thought about staying dressed next time and allowing my talk therp in the appt. thinking about it too much makes me nervous but i do know that i'll be ok. has anyone done bodywork before and with their therapist in the room? it was explained to me that massage person will be support now and my therapist will lead the session. they last two hours... i'm having a hard time imagining what this will look like. i like the part about leaving my clothes on. lol
> -- life
Posted by Escher Dementian on May 3, 2004, at 6:02:37
In reply to Re: Therapeutic Bodywork » lifeworthliving, posted by tinydancer on May 3, 2004, at 2:05:19
Acupuncture was incredibly amazingly effective in assisting my 'mental' therapy. Before i tried it, i had no idea that Massage, Accupressure, and Acupunture could treat specifics that i thought were purely psychological or a matter of brain chemistry.
The healing process is truly remarkable when we come to the Bodywork part of it. My ND, LAc Physician shared with me something that was put into words by a Homeopathic MD: that
"there is a heirarchy of healing that begins in the spirit, then comes down to the head, then continues to the body, then grounds itself in physical action in this world". (...i think i have that right...)Personally, i have experienced absolute evidence that this is true. And am still in awe~~
Escher
Posted by tinydancer on May 3, 2004, at 8:58:51
In reply to Re: Therapeutic Bodywork, posted by Escher Dementian on May 3, 2004, at 6:02:37
Yeah, I wish I had the money, there is so much out there I would love to try. After my appointment today I am learning so much about holding people away, the damage that does to me not only emotionally but as a functioning human being interacting with other human beings. I'm so fearful of what can come to the surface if I let anyone in too close. I think doing bodywork with a trusted licensed therapist would be a really positive thing for me. Tiny Dancer, taking donations! heehee
Posted by fayeroe on May 3, 2004, at 20:58:07
In reply to Re: Therapeutic Bodywork » Escher Dementian, posted by tinydancer on May 3, 2004, at 8:58:51
One of the best investments I've ever made for myself has been massages by a certified massage therapist. Body/mind work is wonderful!
Posted by lifeworthliving on May 3, 2004, at 23:09:43
In reply to Re: Therapeutic Bodywork, posted by fayeroe on May 3, 2004, at 20:58:07
>>>>> One of the best investments I've ever made for myself has been massages by a certified massage therapist. Body/mind work is wonderful!>>>>
this is so good to hear!
we've finally been able to come up with a time good for all three of us. i talked to my reg t about it today. she seems excited to try something new and is eager to do a good job... wants to be sure i feel good about this... safe, etc. i suppose much is up to me... i know they would like for me to be more vocal and i hope i don't disappoint but know it would be hard for me to do anything but cry politely. i hate to make noise or be loud.
Posted by Escher Dementian on May 4, 2004, at 8:02:01
In reply to Re: Therapeutic Bodywork » Escher Dementian, posted by tinydancer on May 3, 2004, at 8:58:51
> Yeah, I wish I had the money, there is so much out there I would love to try.
> Tiny Dancer, taking donations! heehee
>Most physicians and Healers in these kinds of healing arts are wonderfully open to exchanges of talent and networking with our 'gifts'. Almost all of them/us set aside a regular day, week or system to do gratis work for those who cannot pay the regular fee, as a part of the practice and philosophy.
i have on occasions recieved wonderful healing sessions, or been able to attend workshops in exchange for creating something for the physician or practitioner, or their office... anything from creating a hand-lettered business card & letterhead stationery, pen&ink a favorite poem in calligraphy for the office, to tutoring a child who is having difficulty with a subject in school, and once even gave an art lesson.
i know someone who does pet-sitting and dog-walking in exchange for her treatments! Oh, and even someone who catalogued all the office's books and CDs in exchange!TinyDancer, i encourage you to challenge 'supposed' limitations and ask for what you want/need. Think of what you might have to offer other than money. You might be suprised at what might be gratefully valuable to the Healer whose services or assistance is what you need. Just open your inquiry by stating or asking for what you want, and share that you are really strapped for money, but that you have XX skills or talents or services you can offer ---or even ask if there is anything needed that you might be able to provide, in exchange for the Healing you need.
i believe our Universe is in truth set up in loving support for each of us, and loves these kinds of magical exchanges.Give it a try~?
i wish you the very best,Escher
Posted by GabaGirl on May 9, 2004, at 6:34:02
In reply to Therapeutic Bodywork for TinyDancer, posted by Escher Dementian on May 4, 2004, at 8:02:01
Hi:
I'm becoming more interested in accupuncture and acupressure as a potential therapy for me. I believe my insurance may cover some of it too.
Money issues? I can so much relate to that. But I like Escher's suggestions of alternative exchanges/bartering with healers. I live very close to a neighborhood full of such people - Takoma Park just outside of Washington, DC. Where I live now there are also lots of alternatives I am looking at such as free walking and sitting meditation groups, Tai Chi classes for a fee, and creativity-based life coaching, also not free.
Wish I made more money and had more time to take fuller advantage of these great options. One good development is that my apartment building will be opening a free fitness center in June. Yeah!!!
Escher, do you have any information or interest in shamanism?? That's been one of my special interests for years and something else I want to look into more locally and/or regionally -- when I become rich and famous perhaps??? :))
Best,
GabaGirl
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