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Posted by tepi on March 27, 2011, at 16:53:40
My brain is killing my soul , I feel like a worm and every minute that passes I am having all these bad thougths about me.. that im a sick person , that I never gonna be ok , that I dont want to be on earth anymoreMy aniexty is strong... I met a Girl on the net , a real girl that has made me call by phone to her
Shes so beautiful ,its like a dream to me , beautiful green eyes.. but I just cant do it
She is from another economic position besides ,daugther of rich politicians ,,, and that is something that makes me feel more insecure about me and what I have.
We havent met in person , just by phone.. I have to drink some beers before I want to talk with her on the phone but this is goin too far, I ve bee drinking more , I cant do this, can you imaging drinking before every call? I have a week in this conditionTell me good news please I need to hear good things about me
I am on Neurontin but i think im gonna stop in this week not before trying a higher higher dose
Nardil didnt solved my life
There has to be a med out there , a rare medShare me our thougths I feel alone and desperate
Posted by sigismund on March 27, 2011, at 22:09:51
In reply to Autodestroying thougths ! how to stop them? help, posted by tepi on March 27, 2011, at 16:53:40
Tep, when you are young you are much more sociable than you are when you are older.
This means that social phobia gets better with age, because when you get older you feel better about being alone. I know that sounds like no comfort at all, but that is how I have found it.
You know Neurontin will really slow down your sex drive?
Anything that helps SP will damage your sex drive, except the things you can't get, like GHB.
Tep, maybe you are sick, maybe we all are, maybe you are fine just as you are, sick or not. There are people who like people like you. You know that?
But not so much when you are young, and not when sex is involved. That is an unfortunate fact of life.
Posted by tepi on March 27, 2011, at 23:23:32
In reply to Re: Autodestroying thougths ! how to stop them? help, posted by sigismund on March 27, 2011, at 22:09:51
> Tep, when you are young you are much more sociable than you are when you are older.
>
really ? mmmm> This means that social phobia gets better with age, because when you get older you feel better about being alone. I know that sounds like no comfort at all, but that is how I have found it.
>Yes Sigsi that doesnt sound good, I dont like to be alone , but I think I understand what are you trying to tell me here
> You know Neurontin will really slow down your sex drive?
>
didnt know that Sigsi, are you sure? I dont care not having sex drive , I rather have a life and then find a solution to solve sex problems
> Anything that helps SP will damage your sex drive, except the things you can't get, like GHB.
>
things I cant get? what do you mena? drugs?
What is GHB?
> Tep, maybe you are sick, maybe we all are, maybe you are fine just as you are, sick or not. There are people who like people like you. You know that?
>Do you really think that a woman can love an ill men, its not a common illness... its a brain disease.. I believe no woman deserves to share his life with a people with a mental disorder. Women dont need it , they have to find a healt guy , they dont need suffering in his life, they all deserve to be happy
> But not so much when you are young, and not when sex is involved. That is an unfortunate fact of life.
what about drugs? marihuana ,opiods , ,,,, cocaine? not a real answer rigth?How old are you sigsi? you sound very experimented on this stuff
Posted by Phillipa on March 28, 2011, at 0:04:44
In reply to Re: Autodestroying thougths ! how to stop them? help » sigismund, posted by tepi on March 27, 2011, at 23:23:32
Tepi both Sigi and I are older I'm sure he doesn't mind me saying as he said as much. Tepi you are a beautiful person both looks and mind and that is what is important. And so kind. So try not to fear this girl is better than you as all humans are basically the same. I know she will adore you!!!!! Love Phillipa
Posted by hyperfocus on April 1, 2011, at 20:21:00
In reply to Autodestroying thougths ! how to stop them? help, posted by tepi on March 27, 2011, at 16:53:40
tepi maybe the best thing would be to tell her you've got an illness? I know telling somebody you have MI is a real big deal but the alternative of hiding it and making yourself miserable doesn't sound very desirable. Men and women are supposed to like each other for the good things we see in each other - if she can't hold on to you because you have this illness then maybe she's not worth pursuing. One thing you DO find out as you get older is that looks aren't that important and neither is charm. Some of the most attractive charming people are really very vile and selfish underneath.
Posted by hyperfocus on April 1, 2011, at 20:39:22
In reply to Re: Autodestroying thougths ! how to stop them? help, posted by sigismund on March 27, 2011, at 22:09:51
> Tep, when you are young you are much more sociable than you are when you are older.
>
> This means that social phobia gets better with age, because when you get older you feel better about being alone. I know that sounds like no comfort at all, but that is how I have found it.
>Are you sure sigi? My mother said the same thing to me just recently when I was lamenting this hard-*ss recluse position I had taken (or was forced to take because of severe SP) when I was in my twenties. She felt certain that being by yourself and focusing on selfish things like your career was the best for anybody. But I'm not sure - if she does take up the guy in her apartment building on his offer of a drink, it will be a lot less comfortable than staying home and reading, but I'm not sure it wouldn't feel better.
Maybe it's just as you get older you become more patient and hopeful in general, like you become more comfortable waiting for the time when you won't be alone. I'm starting to believe giving and receiving love to other people is hardwired into our minds and bodies. A big part of the pain of my depression and social phobia is the feeling like I'm cut off from the rest of life - not abstract or scientific life - but real flesh-and-blood life.
Posted by desolationrower on April 2, 2011, at 0:28:46
In reply to Autodestroying thougths ! how to stop them? help, posted by tepi on March 27, 2011, at 16:53:40
Thoughts are just thoughts. You don't stop them; just get some popcorn and enjoy them.
-d/r
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